What is a friend?

Tuesday, November 29, 2011
What is a friend? By definition a friend is:


friend

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noun
1.
a person attached to another by feelings of affection or personal regard.
2.
a person who gives assistance; patronsupporter: friends ofthe Boston Symphony.
3.
a person who is on good terms with another; a person who is not hostile


Often, I thought what distinguishes a true friend from an everyday friend. The obvious is there. A true friend is one that sticks by your side and is there for you when you need them. I believe I have a handful of true friends - friends that I know like me for me. Others, I feel are too busy for a committed friendship, which is hard to swallow, but I know that I sometimes can fall into that category. There are not enough hours in the day or a week or even a month to get to see every single person you want to see. Life... it, honestly, gets in the way. Things in your everyday life take priority sometimes. Sometimes, making a phone call to correct a bill or schedule an appointment are the only calls that you can manage to squeeze into your day.

I feel that I have let friends drift because I wasn't able to make them a priority. My intentions are good, but as the saying goes, actions speak louder than words. I'm sure other people feel the same way -- at least I hope they do. I hope that I'm not the only person.

Girls Night Out at Chuck E. Cheese's :)
Tonight, my children and I were invited to a 4 year old's birthday party at Chuck E. Cheese's.  Among the chaos of the children and the excitement of games and the fear in some when Chuck E. Cheese approached the table - it was a great night! A great night for the children, as well as the adults.

When we were getting ready to leave, all we could do was laugh because one child was crying, another was whining, one of mine was m.i.a., etc. haha. Good times!

I can say that now as I sip my Gallo Family Mini Moscato! Mmmmm! Can we say serenity?! :)

Thank you for a wonderful evening and I sure hope that little Miss T had an awesome fourth birthday with her friends!








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